Hiki iā ʻoe ke loaʻa ka ʻike maikaʻi loa ma ka ʻoihana, akā inā ʻaʻole manaʻo nā mea kūʻai aku e mālama ʻoe iā lākou, ʻaʻole lākou e noho kūpaʻa.Eia pehea e hōʻike mau ai ka poʻe e launa pū me nā mea kūʻai aku i ko lākou mālama.

ʻIke ka hapa nui o nā hui he mea maʻalahi ke aʻo ʻana i nā limahana i nā "mākaukau paʻakikī" e pono ai lākou e hana maikaʻi i ka hana ma mua o ka hoʻomaikaʻi ʻana i kā lākou "mākaukau palupalu."

Akā ʻo nā mākau palupalu - nā hōʻailona o ka mālama, empathy, hoʻolohe a me ka hopohopo - ka mea nui i ka ʻike o ka mea kūʻai aku.

"ʻO kāu hoʻolālā maikaʻi loa ʻo ke aʻo ʻana i kāu poʻe limahana i ke ʻano o ka mālama ʻana i nā mea kūʻai aku i ka hana," wahi a Jon Gordon, ka mea kākau o The Carpenter."Ke ʻike lākou i ka maikaʻi o ka mālama ʻana, a me ka maikaʻi o ka mālama ʻana i ka ʻoihana, e loaʻa iā ʻoe ke kūʻai aku a kāu hui a hoʻomau i ke komo ʻana."

No laila pehea ke ʻano o ka mālama ʻana?Eia nā ala ʻehiku e hiki ai i nā limahana ke hōʻike i ko lākou mālama:

1. E oi aku mamua o ka manawa

E like me ka paʻakikī o ka ʻoihana e ka ʻenehana, ʻo ia nā mea maʻalahi e hiki ai i nā mea kūʻai ke manaʻo maikaʻi.Hāʻawi i nā mea kūʻai i kou nānā piha ma ka lawe ʻana i nā maka a me nā pepeiao i nā mea hoʻowalewale a puni ʻoe ke kamaʻilio lākou.ʻO nā mea a pau i ka manawa pinepine, paʻi nā limahana i ka leka uila a pane i nā laina kani i ka wā e noho pū ana kekahi mea kūʻai me lākou.

Pono nā alakaʻi e hoʻonoho i ka laʻana ma ʻaneʻi, e waiho i nā mea hoʻohilahila ke kamaʻilio me nā limahana.

2. Hoʻonui i ka hāʻawi

Hāʻawi i ke kōkua, akā, mai lele.Inā kipa nā mea kūʻai aku iā ʻoe, e hoʻomaopopo koke iā lākou, inā ʻaʻole koke, a hāʻawi i ke kōkua.

ʻOiaʻiʻo, ʻoi aku ka nui o nā ʻoihana ma ka pūnaewele a ma ke kelepona i kēia mau lā.No laila, i ka wā e kūʻai aku ai nā mea kūʻai aku ma ka pūnaewele, e hāʻawi i kahi hālāwai kūkā, akā ʻaʻole loaʻa nā hāʻawi pahu kamaʻilio pop up a mau.Ma ke kelepona, e hoʻopau i kēlā me kēia kamaʻilio ʻana me kahi hāʻawi hou aku e kōkua, inā manaʻo nā mea kūʻai aku i kahi mea ʻē aʻe.

3. E hana pilikino

Ua aʻo paha ka hapa nui o nā limahana mua i ka wā i hala aku nei e kamaʻilio i nā mea kūʻai aku ma ka inoa e hana pilikino i ka ʻike.ʻOiaʻiʻo nō kēlā.Akā ʻo ka hoʻohui ʻana i kahi hoʻomanaʻo - e pili ana paha i kahi ʻike i hala a i ʻole ka ʻike pilikino i hōʻike ʻia e nā mea kūʻai aku i kahi manawa ʻē aʻe - hōʻike iā ʻoe e mālama i ke kanaka, ʻaʻole wale i ke kālepa.

Haʻalele ka hapa nui o nā waihona no nā memo.E paipai i nā limahana e hana i nā moʻolelo pōkole e hiki ai iā lākou a me nā hoa hana ke hoʻohana i mau kuhikuhi i nā kamaʻilio i hala i hiki ke ʻōlelo hou ʻia.Ma ka ʻaoʻao ʻaoʻao, makemake paha lākou e nānā i nā mea pono ʻole e kūkākūkā ʻia me nā mea kūʻai aku.

4. Hōʻike i ka mahalo

ʻOiaʻiʻo, ʻike nā limahana e pili ana i nā mea kūʻai aku i ka mahalo.Aia kekahi mau hana ʻē aʻe e hiki ai iā ʻoe ke hana e hōʻike i ka mahalo ma mua o ka hoʻolohe pono ʻana, ka ʻōlelo ʻoluʻolu a me ka hoʻohana ʻana i kahi leo ʻoluʻolu.

Laʻana: E hōʻike i ka mahalo i nā mea kūʻai aku ma ka ʻike ʻana i kahi mea a lākou i hana ai.Hiki iaʻu ke maʻalahi e like me ka hoʻomaikaʻi ʻana iā lākou i kahi koho a lākou i hana ai i ka wā o kahi kauoha.A i ʻole, inā hōʻike lākou i kahi hoʻokō - he hoʻolaha paha i ka hana, hoʻopau 5K, puka puka ʻana o kahi keiki - i ka wā o ke kamaʻilio kūkulu rapport, e hoʻomaikaʻi iā lākou i ka hoʻoikaika ʻana e hoʻokō i kēlā.A e nānā iā ia i kā lākou moʻokāki i hiki iā ʻoe ke hahai i kekahi manawa ma ke ala.

5. E noho maikaʻi

Aneane hiki ʻole ke hoʻonohonoho i kahi leo aloha ke kamaʻilio maikaʻi ʻole e pili ana i kāu ʻoihana, nā mea hoʻokūkū, nā mea kūʻai aku, ka ʻoihana, ka wā a i ʻole.ʻAʻole mālama ka moʻomeheu maikaʻi ʻole.

"Ke ʻike ʻoe i ka maikaʻi, e ʻimi i ka maikaʻi a manaʻo i ka maikaʻi, ʻike ʻoe i ka maikaʻi a loaʻa iā ʻoe ka maikaʻi," wahi a Gordon.“Hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻohana i kēia kumukānāwai ma ka hoʻāʻo ʻana e hoʻōki i ka noʻonoʻo ʻana i nā mea kūʻai aku he 'hoʻonāukiuki,' 'pōʻino,' 'clueless' a i ʻole 'he hoʻopau i koʻu manawa.'

ʻAʻole pono nā limahana e kāhiko i nā mea āpau no lākou iho, nā mea kūʻai aku a i ʻole kekahi.Akā hiki iā ʻoe ke hana i kahi ʻano maikaʻi a mālama ʻia ma o ka hoʻolaha ʻana i nā mea maikaʻi a me ka noi ʻana i nā hoʻonā i nā pilikia - a ʻaʻole e hoʻopiʻi i kēlā mau pilikia.

6. E leʻaleʻa

ʻO ka ʻakaʻaka he hōʻailona o ka mālama.ʻAʻole pono kēlā me kēia kamaʻilio ʻana a me ka hoʻololi ʻana.ʻO ka ʻakaʻaka kūpono mai ʻoe a i ʻole nā ​​​​mea kūʻai aku he ala ikaika e kūkulu ai i nā paʻa ikaika.

Ma ka liʻiliʻi loa, e hoʻomāʻewaʻewa iā ʻoe iho no kahi kuhi hewa - akā mai ʻakaʻaka i kahi kuhi hewa nui e huhū ai nā mea kūʻai aku.

Hōʻike i kou ʻano me nā mea kūʻai aku.

7. E hele i ka mile keu

E ʻimi i nā ala e hoʻomaikaʻi iki ai i kēlā me kēia pilina.ʻO nā hana liʻiliʻi, e like me ka hele ʻana i nā mea kūʻai aku i ka puka a i ʻole ma kāu pūnaewele, e hōʻike ana i kou hoihoi i nā mea kūʻai aku a pehea e mālama ʻia ai lākou.

E hahai i nā kelepona e hōʻoia i ka holo ʻana o nā mea a pau e like me ka mea i manaʻo ʻia.

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